A love marriage, however, does not necessarily __
______ much sharing of interests and responsibilities.
A) take over B) result in
C) hold on D) keep to
______ much sharing of interests and responsibilities.
A) take over B) result in
C) hold on D) keep to
_____ much sharing of interests and responsibilities.
A) take over B) result in C) hold on D) keep to
But there is a difference. In the original omiai, the young Japanese couldn't reject the partner chosen by his parents and their middlernan. After World War II, many Japanese abandoned the arranged marriage as part of their rush to adopt the more democratic ways of their American conquerors. The Western ren'ai kekkon , or love marriage, became popular; Japanese began picking their own mates by dating and falling in love.
But the Western way was often found wanting in an important respect: it didn't necessarily produce a partner of the right economic, social, and educational qualifications. "Today's young people are quite calculating," says Chieko Akiyama, a social commentator.
What seems to be happening now is a repetition of a familiar process in the country's history, the "Japanization" of an adopted foreign practice. The Western ideal of marrying for love is accommodated in a new orniai in which both parties are free to reject the match. "Omiai is evolving into a sort of stylized introduction," Mrs. Akiyama says.
Many young Japanese now date in their early twenties, but with no thought of marriage. When they reach the age—in the middle twenties for women, the late twenties for men—they increasingly turn to omiai. Some studies suggest that as many as 40% of marriages each year are omiai kekkon. It's hard to be sure, say those who study the matter, because many Japanese couples, when polled, describe their marriage as a love match even if it was arranged.
These days, doing omiai often means going to a computer matching service rather than to a nakodo. The nakodo of tradition was an old woman who knew all the kids in the neighborhood and went around trying to pair them off by speaking to their parents; a successful match would bring her a wedding invitation and a gift of money. But Japanese today find it's less awkward to reject a proposed partner if the nakodo is a computer.
Japan has about five hundred computer matching services. Some big companies, including Mitsubishi, run one for their employees. At a typical commercial service, an applicant pays $80 to $ 125 to have his or her personal data stored in the computer for two years and $ 200 or so more if a marriage results. The stored information includes some obvious items, like education and hobbies, and some not-so-obvious ones, like whether a person is the oldest child. (First sons, and to some extent first daughthers, face an obligation of caring for elderly parents. )
According to the passage, today's young Japanese prefer______.
A.a traditional arranged marriage
B.a new type of arranged marriage
C.a Western love marriage
D.a more Westernized love marriage
Speaker A: So how do you find our city? Speaker B:______
A.I came here by plane, of course.
B.Oh, I love it. It's so exciting.
C.To tell the truth, it's quite difficult to find your home.
D.What do you think of it?
What are some of the differences between love and infatuation?
1. Genuine love is more likely to involve a process of "growing" in love rather than "falling" in love. This may sound terribly unromantic to some who are used to hearing talk about "falling in love" or being "head over heels in love." This "falling" is often infatuation, and the sheer emotion of "falling" in love often blinds a person to the imperfections of the loved one. We tend to think of the loved one as "perfect", "ideal", or some other divine image. Real love sees the total person—both the "perfection" and the imperfection. Infatuation, then, is a sudden, emotional sense that one has discovered the "perfect" lover. On the other hand, love realizes imperfections and grows with he acceptance of those imperfections.
2. Love leads a person to a feeling of security and trust in the loved lone. It usually involves a feeling of mutual benefit arising from the new relationship. "We are able to solve our problems together" is the feeling of love, rather than "Please love me because I need you."
3. Infatuation often entails feelings of insecurity whenever the "lovers" are separated; feelings of doubt, fickleness, uncertainty, and fear of loss often accompany infatuation. "What will I do if I lose him?" and "I wonder of she really means it when she says she loves me?" express the feelings of infatuation. In such a setting a lasting love does not have a chance to develop.
4.Infatuation tends to be more manipulative than love because a lasting feeling of relationship probably has not developed, so that the individuals are still concerned mainly about their own needs and satisfactions. Conversely, in love, the feeling of relationship is genuine and sincere so that concern for the other person evolves naturally.
5. Physical attraction is an important part of both infatuation and love, but the superficial attraction is less important in love, for the couple experiencing love usually will build their relationship on a broader base than mere physical attraction.
Her love and devotion for my brother and me made our lack of material possessions seem insignificant. Even today, if I were given a choice between having love at home and wealth, I would want it just the way I had it. I grew up poor in material things but rich in love.
Since my father was never around long enough to teach me physical things or to play games with me, I didn't succeed in any competitive sport. My mother did her best as a substitute, throwing a ball with me in the lot(空地) behind our house, but it wasn't the same. She was too protective of me, and I didn't have enough confidence in my own abilities to really try anything physically demanding.
The story suggests that the author is______his mother.
A.proud of
B.worried about
C.pitiful for
D.concerned about
In the United Stated, parents do not () marriages for their children.Teenagers begin dating in high school and usually find mates through their own academic and social ().
() young people feel free to choose their friends from () groups, most choose a mate of similar ().
This is due in part to parental guidance.Parents cannot () spouses for their children, but they can usually () choices by voicing disapproval of someone they consider unsuitable.
(), marriages between members of different groups (interclass, interfaith, and interracial marriages) are (), probably because of the greater mobility of today’s youth and the fact that they are () by fewer prejudices than their parents.Many young people leave their hometowns to attend college, serve in the armed forces, () pursue a career in a bigger city.
Once away from home and family, they are more () to date and marry outside their own social group.
In mobile American society, interclass marriages are neither () nor astonishing.Interfaith marriages are () the rise, especially between Protestants (基督教徒) and Catholics (天主教徒).On the other hand, interracial marriages are still very ().It can be difficult for interracial couples to find a place to live, maintain friendships, and () a family.Marriages between people of different national () (but the same race and religion) have been commonplace here () colonial times.
1.A.specially B.naturally C.particularly D.fortunately
2.A.moreB.rather C.lessD.better
3.A.arrangeB.engageC.manage D.propose
4.A.position B.association C.contract D.contacts
5.A.Since B.ThoughC.IfD.Hence
6.A.separate B.identical C.independentD.different
7.A.backgroundB.situation C.circumstance D.condition
8.A.opposeB.reject C.select D.approve
9.A.influenceB.make C.afford D.provide
10.A.ThereforeB.However C.MoreoverD.Likewise
11.A.decliningB.prohibitingC.increasingD.reducing
12.A.restrained B.retained C.reserved D.restricted
13.A.butB.orC.soD.otherwise
14.A.likelyB.possible C.reluctant D.lonely
15.A.scarceB.risky C.rare D.rigid
16.A.in B.atC.forD.on
17.A.normal B.uncommon C.ordinary D.unite
18.A.raise B.settle C.growD.unite
19.A.source B.convention C.origin D.immigrant
20.A.sinceB.forC.inD.during
21. On hearing 3-year-old cousin had cancer, how did the author feel? ()
A. Puzzled
B. Shock
C. Afraid
D. Worried
22. What can we know from Paragraph 2? ()
A. The world is unfair to the writer’s family.
B. Unlucky things didn’t happen to the writer’s family.
C. The writer had the disability with her legs.
D. Unlucky things of the family made the writer very sad.
23. Where did the conversation happen? ()
A. In the living room
B. In the kitchen
C. In the bedroom
D. On the street
24. What can we know about Madi? ()
A. She was kind and willing to help others
B. She liked smiling, but didn’t love cooking.
C. She made her mother regret her hair.
D. She didn’t like wearing long hair again.
Passage 2
There is nothing new about TV and fashion magazines giving girls unhealthy ideas about how thin they need to be in order to be considered beautiful. What is _1_ is the method psychologists at the University of Texas have come up with to keep girls from developing eating disorders. Their main weapon against superskinny (role) models: a brand of civil disobedience _2_ “body activism.” Since 2001,more than 1,000 high school and college students in the U.S. have participated in the Body Project, which works by getting girls to understand how they have been buying into the _3_ that you have to be thin to be happy or successful. After critiquing (评论)the so-called thin ideal by writing essays and role-playing with their peers, participants are _4_ to come up with and execute small,_5_acts. They include slipping notes saying “Love your body the way it is” into dieting books at stores like Borders and writing letters to Mattel, makers of the impossibly _6_ Barbie doll. According to a study in the latest issue of the Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, the risk of developing eating disorders was reduced 61% among Body Project participants. And they continued to exhibit _7_ body-image attitudes as long as three years after completing the program, which consists of four one-hour _8_. Such lasting effects may be due to girls’ realizing not only how they were being _9_ but also who was benefiting from the societal pressure to be thin.“These people who promote the perfect body really don’t care about you at all,” says Kelsey Hertel, a high school junior and Body Prqject veteran in Eugene, Oregon. “They _10_ make you feel like less of a person so you’ll buy their stuff and they’ll make money.”
A) nonviolent
B) notification
C) dubbed
D) sessions
E) purposefully
F) surprising
G) expired
H) directed
I) positive
J) casually
K) notion
L) proportioned
M) ambiguous
N) influenced
O) entities
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听力原文:M: Say, Lisa, what are you watching?
W: An old Japanese film. I'm going to spend next year there, so I'd better start familiarizing myself with the culture (23) .
M: You mean you are accepted into the program?
W: Sure was.
M: That's wonderful. You must be very-excited.
W: Excited and nervous. You know I owe a lot to Professor Whitehead. He wrote a letter of recommendation for me and he bought me some tapes and books so I can work on my basic conversation skills (24) .
M: How much Japanese can you understand?
W: Not a lot right now. But I signed up for Intensive Japanese this semester.
M: I wish I were as talented as you are in foreign languages. I'd love to study abroad.
W: Then why don't you? The university has lots of overseas programs that don't require mastery of a foreign language. The tuition is about the same. You just have to be the kind of person who is willing to accept new culture and who can also adapt to a different kind of life style. (25) .
M: Really? I might check into this.
W: You won't regret it.
(20)
A.Taping some music.
B.Watching a film.
C.Making a video recording.
D.Writing a letter.
(阅读理解题)Advertisements make us want too much, so we get the idea that the only purpose of advertising is to sell goods.But it is not completely right.Advertisement has another equally important function—to inform.A great deal of the knowledge we have about household goods derives largely from the advertisements we read.Advertisements introduce us to new products or remind us of the existence of ones we already know about.Supposing you wanted to buy a washer, it is more than likely you would obtain details regarding performance, price, etc., from an advertisement.Lots of people pretend that they never read advertisements, but this claim may be seriously doubted.It is hardly possible not to read advertisements these days.And what fun they often are, too! Just think what a railway station or a newspaper would be like without advertisements.Would you enjoy gazing at a blank wall or reading railway byelaws while waiting for a train? Would you like to read only closely printed columns of news in your daily paper? A cheerful, witty advertisement makes such a difference to a drab wall or a newspaper full of bad news.We must not forget that advertising makes a positive contribution to our pockets.Newspapers, commercial radio and television companies could not subsist without this source of revenue.The fact that we pay so little for our daily paper, or can enjoy so many broadcast programs is due entirely to the money spent by advertisers.Just think what a newspaper would cost if we had to pay its full price! Another thing we mustn’t forget is the ‘small ads.’ in virtually every newspaper and magazine.What a tremendously useful service they perform. for the community! Just about anything can be accomplished through these columns.For instance, you can find a job; buy or sell a house; announce a birth, marriage, or death in these small ads.
(1).What will you possibly want to know from a washer advertisement?
A、some details
B、how much it will cost
C、its functions
D、all of the above.
(2).What is the author’s attitude towards most people’s claim that they never read advertisements?
A、doubt
B、agreement
C、acceptance
D、in favor of
(3).According to the text, which of the following statements is true?
A、only TV commercials are useful in daily life
B、advertisements help to change our life
C、advertisements should be serious
D、advertisements make us spend more money on newspaper, magazines and broadcast programs
(4).In the passage, the author is focusing on ____________.
A、how people buy things through advertisements
B、the useful service of advertisements to the community
C、how advertisers spend their money
D、the advantages and disadvantages of advertisements
(5).According to the passage, advertisements will NOT make us ____________.
A、buy something
B、know the functions of some new goods
C、learn some knowledge
D、forget the old things that are already known by people